As the 47th edition of the Paléo Festival wraps up, I’ve been reflecting on my experiences of attending the event solo. When I first mention going alone, people react as if I’ve lost my mind and look at me in shock horror. The notion seems to scream “lonely loser” to them. However, having experienced Paléo both solo and with friends and family, I can confidently say I prefer the freedom and flexibility of exploring on my own.
When you’re with others, you often spend half your time on the phone or texting, trying to locate each other, especially if you plan to meet on-site. You might end up seeing only parts of performances, usually focusing on the headliners, rather than enjoying the full range of artists you’re interested in.
You might settle for food you don’t really fancy because it’s easier to stand in long queues together, rather than splitting up and having to wait for each other and then regroup to eat. It’s a logistical challenge that often means compromising on what you really want to see, eat or do. Sound familiar? I realised that attending alone is actually awesome and I am going to tell you why!
Let me start by saying that a significant part of my confidence in doing this comes from the fact that Switzerland’s environment feels particularly secure, safe, and reassuring. Paléo is also very well-managed with numerous volunteer staff, check points, and an infirmary on site to assist you. The event app also helps avoid ticket scams, a common issue with last-minute sales and resales.
The exceptionally well-run transport systems put in place; the buses, trains, and plenty of car parking spaces add to the overall sense of ease. Plus, if you’re staying in Nyon or neighboring villages, jumping on your bike and cycling down to the festival is quick and easy, making for a convenient and enjoyable journey to and from the event. I’m not sure I’d feel as comfortable going alone elsewhere, but the atmosphere here makes it the perfect playground to try.
Freedom and Flexibility
You get to create your own schedule and be spontaneous. Want to spend an extra hour at the Village du Monde or catch an unexpected DJ act on the Belleville stage? You can, without needing to coordinate with anyone else or negotiate meeting times. Navigating Paléo on your own builds confidence and is liberating, allowing you to make decisions on the fly. Plus, it’s a fantastic way to discover what you truly love—whether it’s the music, the food, or the various cultural exhibits.
Deepened Musical Experience
Fully immerse yourself in the music. I was able to enjoy every moment of Burna Boy’s afrofusion explosion on Day one, the power of Hirma’s DJ set, I sang along to the hits of Nile Rodgers and Chic alongside a sea of other fans and sat, on the now very dry grounds, on the last day with the fabulous operatic tenor Roberto Alagna and friends.
Attending solo lets you move freely between stages, discovering new artists, like an abstract band at the Club Tent that you might have missed in a group setting. Paléo’s rich atmosphere—with its diverse cultural areas like the Village du Monde and La Ruche, can be fully appreciated when you’re alone. You can take your time to enjoy the art, food, games and cultural exhibits without feeling rushed.
Meeting New People
Attending alone doesn’t mean you have to spend the entire night by yourself. Many people reach out on social media looking for others to meet up with. These spontaneous meet-ups can turn into a quick drink or meal, a shared concert experience, or just a friendly check-in that makes the night more interesting and enjoyable. Being alone makes you more approachable, and you’ll find yourself striking up conversations with fellow festival-goers. I met some amazing people while waiting in line for food or just relaxing on the grass between sets. Then I continued on my way.
Just before the Sam Smith concert, I saw a guy on the phone clearly struggling to find his friends in the crowd. Another guy, wrapped in unlit fairy lights, approached him and said, “Hey, just tell them to look for me,” then lit himself up like a Christmas tree! It was a sweet gesture and a clever way to stand out in the crowd. Others carried balloons or cuddly toys adorned with fairy lights, making it easier to spot each other.
Overcoming Ticket Challenges
Sometimes it’s hard to secure tickets for the whole family or a group, but that shouldn’t put you off from going. Solo tickets are often easier to find last minute, and going alone ensures you don’t miss out on a particular artist just because your friends or family couldn’t get tickets. Put the feelers out and see if you know anyone else going that same night.
Embrace the Adventure
Festival season continues this summer and with it, a unique opportunity to step out of your comfort zone. Embrace the adventure of going solo and make the most of the diverse experiences these events offer. So next time you’re considering attending a festival, don’t shy away from going alone. Sometimes the best company you can have is yourself.
Look out for our next article on other local festivals still happening and those coming up!
Excellent article. I completely agree with the sentiments expressed. I often travel alone and prefer it. “Lonely loser?” I look at couples joined at the hip who would be petrified to do anything requiring independence and see them as the losers!
Thank you Jacqueline. I love to do lots of things with friends & family but sometimes I just prefer to do things alone! Lonely loser may be a bit extreme but it gets the point across! 🙂
Couldn’t agree more Seema! Great article.
Thanks Catherine!